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Apartment Aesthetics: The Best Housewares Brands to Complete Your Space
It took me a long time, but I've finally come to the blunt realization that we are going to be inside for a very long time. For the moment, I'm okay with that. Now that I've begun to process this, one of the things that has kept me sane is making my home someplace I...
Let’s Talk About Sex: How to Take Nudes 101
Rona has quickly changed alot in our lives in a matter of two* months. The way we love each other (and ourselves), the way we date, the way we communicate and express ourselves is completely different now. Whether you're in a relationship, dating or talking to someone, or single and (not) looking, the way we...
New Apartment Blues: What Rona Means for the Housing Hunt.
Play Ari Lennox's "New Apartment" while you read! Do you remember the classic Carrie Bradshaw line: “In New York, you're always looking for a job, apartment or a boyfriend.” Well, I've been on the hunt for all three since graduating college in 2014. Finding an apartment is hard. But, finding an apartment in New York is an...
Let’s Talk About Sex—The Column: Riding 101
I'm going to start this week's column being completely honest. I'll try most things twice for the sake of curiosity and pleasure, but me and riding do not get along. Maybe, I don't have Megan Thee Stallion knees. Or maybe, I'm overly concerned about how my body looks on top. Are my titties, tittying? Does...
Let’s Talk About Sex, The Column: Fellatio
The time has officially come to talk about the act of so many names— head, brain, dome, neck, knob goblin, spit shine, etc. — professionally known as fellatio. My first introduction to head came from the lyrics of Lil Kim, Trina, and of course Shawnna. The late night public access show, Robin Byrd, gave me...
Sex Column: Let’s Talk About Cunnilingus 101
It's been a minute since I've written much of anything on my blog, but let's talk about the birth of this column. "The Black Carrie Bradshaw" is something I've been called quite a few times since the start of my podcast. I've always wanted a column, I mean, I did go to school for journalism....
The Best Online Vintage Shops Curated for Curves
My style, much like my size, has changed alot over the years. But, one thing that remains the same is my love for GOOD vintage pieces. I started thrifting during my broke era —better known as college. It started as a quick and cheap way to find an outfit for the weekend or a party...
Homecoming
What happens to the writer who doesn’t write? The girl, with the words, who suddenly has none? The girl whose pen has suddenly ran out of ink? I write this in the notes section of my phone as the blank page of my WordPress taunts me. It asks "Where I’ve been, where my secrets and...
Let’s Talk About Sex: A Guide to Picking The Best Sex Toys For You
From growing up a Catholic school kid convinced that masturbation was unnatural to being stifled and shamed for my curiosity during my first relationship, sex toys and I have had a very long journey. My very first toy — a cheap clit vibrator— came from Target and cost no more than $10. I had never...