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New Apartment Blues: What Rona Means for the Housing Hunt.

Play Ari Lennox's "New Apartment" while you read! Do you remember the classic Carrie Bradshaw line: “In New York, you're always looking for a job, apartment or a boyfriend.” Well, I've been on the hunt for all three since graduating college in 2014. Finding an apartment is hard. But, finding an apartment in New York is an...

Let’s Talk About Sex—The Column: Riding 101

I'm going to start this week's column being completely honest. I'll try most things twice for the sake of curiosity and pleasure, but me and riding do not get along. Maybe, I don't have Megan Thee Stallion knees. Or maybe, I'm overly concerned about how my body looks on top. Are my titties, tittying? Does...

Let’s Talk About Sex, The Column: Fellatio

The time has officially come to talk about the act of so many names— head, brain, dome, neck, knob goblin, spit shine, etc. — professionally known as fellatio. My first introduction to head came from the lyrics of Lil Kim, Trina, and of course Shawnna. The late night public access show, Robin Byrd, gave me...

Sex Column: Let’s Talk About Cunnilingus 101

It's been a minute since I've written much of anything on my blog, but let's talk about the birth of this column. "The Black Carrie Bradshaw" is something I've been called quite a few times since the start of my podcast. I've always wanted a column, I mean, I did go to school for journalism....

Homecoming

What happens to the writer who doesn’t write? The girl, with the words, who suddenly has none? The girl whose pen has suddenly ran out of ink? I write this in the notes section of my phone as the blank page of my WordPress taunts me. It asks "Where I’ve been, where my secrets and...

An Ode to Riding the Waves

People do not pass. Feelings do not change. But, time keeps going. Over the past three months, I've learned alot about emotions. While I thought being Pisces put me at an advantage of knowing my feelings, I've learned I don't know shit at all. Grief is the trickiest emotion of them all and you know...